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  • 5 days ago | Columns

    I'm a professional dominatrix, and I thought I'd seen everything in the past five years. But this situation completely baffled the entire dungeon. This middle-aged guy, seemingly in fine health, booked an appointment with me and my colleague for o...

  • 12 days ago | Columns

    I'm a 67-year-old gay man. After a breakup 15 years ago, I believed the possibility of emotional and sexual intimacy with a partner was over for me. Then a couple of months ago, my desire for sexual contact increased dramatically. For the first ti...

  • 3 months ago | Columns

    I am a pretty handsome gay (I have been told), and I am dating a gorgeous man. I am 34, and he is 31. I am bottom only, and he is top only—so it's a good match. He seems sincerely interested in me, and we are talking about being together...

  • 3 months ago | Columns

    In a frank exchange early in our courtship, I told my girlfriend that I have no kinks. As a faithful reader of Savage Love, I'm obviously not opposed to kinks—but I've never had any inclinations in that direction and am probably a typical hetero v...

  • 3 months ago | Columns

    My only child is 16 years old. He was curious about sex from a very young age and very open with me, so his interest in sexual matters gave me ample opportunity to talk with him about safety and consent. He went through a cross-dressing phase when...

  • 3 months ago | Columns

    I'm a 25-year-old woman currently in a poly relationship with a married man roughly 20 years my senior. This has been by far the best relationship I've ever had. However, something has me a bit on edge. We went on a trip with friends to a brewery ...


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