Rule of Two: Rafael and Guilherme Mendes

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Rule of Two: Rafael and Guilherme Mendes
Rickett & Sones

"Be humble."

That's No. 22—coming just before "Believe & Achieve"—on the Code of Conduct hanging on one of the sparkling walls found in the glistening, very white gym of Rafael and Guilherme Mendes. The Art of Jiu Jitsu (AJJ), located on 17th Street in Costa Mesa, isn't what you'd call clean; that doesn't do its glimmering sheen justice. It's immaculate and stylish; it's an interior of contemporary furnishings, sharp angles, modern art. The complete absence of anything even hinting of that which is untidy, unkempt, dusty, dirty or disheveled suggests its design is the product of a private-public partnership between Crate and Barrel and the Centers for Disease Control.

Clean?

Look at those mats; those white, white mats. Cleaned five times a day—cleaning personnel are ubiquitous here—you could eat off those mats, though you wouldn't (i.e., No. 21: "No shoes, food, or drinks on the mat"). Since opening in the summer of 2012, AJJ has quickly become one of the most influential martial-arts gyms in Southern California, with students of all ages, genders and skill levels attracted not only by the digs, but also by the opportunity to learn from the Brazilian born-and-bred Mendes brothers, who, between them, have claimed six black-belt world championships as competitors.

If the gym resembles a place you'd want to not only work in, but also live, understand that the Mendes practically do. Their apartment, where they live together with their wives—who smells a sitcom?—is just around the corner. Ask them what they do on their off hours, and they kind of mutter about taking a walk or going to the beach because mostly they prefer being in the gym, teaching.

Not coaching, not fighting, but teaching—No. 2 ("Always address Rafael and Guilherme as Professor . . ."). To them, jiu jitsu is a way of life to be learned.

"We've always had the dream to teach kids," says Guilherme, 25, called "Ghe" by almost everyone who isn't a student. "Jiu jitsu is not just a martial art; it's a lifestyle. It teaches you a respect for all things: your health, your environment, elders, training partners. It's a way of life, and our goal has been to pass that along in our own academy, where everyone can train, no matter their age."

Respect is a big thing for the Mendeses. The word appears three times specifically on the Code and is suggested in pretty much each of the 23 items, whether it's how one watches instruction (No. 6: "Every student must sit or stand in good posture") or how one presents oneself (No. 14: "A dirty uniform is a sign of disrespect").

The Mendeses are respectful to a fault. And humble. They view what they do and where they do it as transformative because it changed the course of their lives. Born and raised in Rio Claro, Brazil (about two hours northwest of São Paulo), they were introduced to jiu jitsu when Ghe was 12 and Rafael was 11, around the time their parents' marriage was breaking up. They saw their father infrequently, and their mother worked long hours to support the family. Jiu jitsu provided not only structure and strong male role models—especially their teacher, Brazilian jiu jitsu legend Ramon Lemos—but also a safe place to be. Well, to a certain extent.

"The gym we started out in didn't have any kids, so we had to train with adults, and they didn't want to get beat by this little kid, so they went hard on us," says Rafael, 24, called "Rafa" (prounounced "Hafa" in Portuguese). "It made us better because it made us understand that we needed to learn technique to counter their strength."

Indeed, when you first see the brothers, you'd be forgiven for having an "Oh, I could take them" moment. Slight in build and baby-faced, they are not in any way intimidating. Rather than a show of strength, jiu jitsu is an intellectual pursuit for them. To the uninitiated, the sport can resemble two people just rolling around on the ground. But check out any of the Mendeses' numerous instructional videos online, ones in which they break down the specifics of the Anaconda Choke, Spider Guard or Collar Drag, and you'll see an intricately choreographed dance dependent on timing, knowledge and patience.

"It's like chess," Ghe says. "We fake something to get to something else."

They learned as children that sometimes it is better, ultimately safer, for one to accept aggression and hardship, rather than resist it. "As kids, we learned to use our opponents' own strength against themselves," Rafa says. "You're fighting someone who is stronger than you, you need to stay calm and use leverage, your mind, to put yourself in an advantage. You don't always want to push real hard; sometimes, you need to accept a push, and then change its direction. That's life; sometimes, you have to roll with it."

Their style, variously referred to as academic and intellectual, got them noticed at a young age. One of those who noticed was Pat Tenore, a Brazilian jiu jitsu black belt himself and the founder of RVCA. He told the boys that if they ever won a black-belt world championship, he'd set them up in a studio around the corner from his house.

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agoes949
agoes949

As another commentor said, "They say the right things … they will tell you humility & respect are important, but they don’t seem to live it very well."


How respectful is moving 15 feet way from a competitor in a tiny niche like this? No not figuratively, literally all that separates the 2 schools that share the same parking lot is a 15 foot driveway. I have never seen anything like this happen in Jiu-Jitsu. This isn't big business like Walmart where a ethics don't mean much. This is a tiny niche where you really don't need to engage in predatory practices.


Action speak louder than words. Look at not what they say, but what they do.

jj4life1234
jj4life1234

Respect and humility are important to them?  Really?  I remember Rafael’s 1st black belt world championship victory, where he barely edged 4 – time world champion, Cobrinha.  After the match, Rafael bends down and pretends to pick up a crown from the ground and places it on his head … in an attempt to self proclaiming himself the new “King” of the featherweights.  How humble was that?  It is the epitome of arrogance.  Not even a “somewhat humble” person would do that.  Respect?  Was it respectful for Rafael to not show up for the podium at Abu Dhabi Pro in 2011 when Tanquinho beat him?  Who does that?  No one likes to lose … and maybe he even felt “cheated” but that is part of the game and “respect” means respecting your opponent even if you feel the referee cheated you.  How respectful was it for Guillerme to tell another athlete (world champion athlete) that he must not be a good instructor because a student had come to one of the Mendes’ berimbolo seminars at AOJ.  Seriously!  That is arrogant and disrespectful at the same time.  I wonder if those actions represent the kind of respect & humility they are teaching those kids.  Their jiu jitsu is amazing, their academy is beautiful, and they are obviously good teachers too.  They say the right things … they will tell you humility & respect are important, but they don’t seem to live it very well. 


mophisto.waltz
mophisto.waltz

I am proud to train here and be part of the AOJ family!! 

sweetliberty17761776
sweetliberty17761776 topcommenter

glad to see this


as a martial artist for life


I abhor the negativity sometimes given to the art


sure the sport can raise some stink


but not the art, when practiced as your article says they do


excellent

 
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