This mofo would butt in other ppls business..almost knocked him out..then realized he was a fag and gave him a pass...still a sad way to go...r.i.p..
By Charles Lam
By R. Scott Moxley
By Taylor Hamby
By Matt Coker
By R. Scott Moxley
By Charles Lam
By LP Hastings
By Taylor Hamby
The board's response? It proposed to ban all 38 non-academic clubs in the OUSD, including such seemingly harmless ones as the Black Student Union, rather than have the GSA forced down its throat. That idea went nowhere, so instead, it voted to require parental permission slips for all students who wanted to join clubs.
The media frenzy spread. Colin and Zetin and El Modena's GSA were written about in TIME, USA Today and The New York Times. By April, a glossy Colin—and his black nail polish—found himself on the cover of the national gay news magazine The Advocate. "GAY TEENS FIGHT BACK," the cover blurbed. "Anthony Colin leads a new generation of high school activists out of the closet."
The GSA's legal reps, meanwhile, sought—and won—a preliminary injunction from U.S. District Court Judge David O. Carter against the OUSD to allow the club to meet until the end of the school year while the larger lawsuit wound through the courts.
It was a historic victory—the first time anywhere in the country that a federal judge had ordered a public-school board to allow a GSA to meet on campus.
"Anthony was thrilled; I was thrilled—it was huge," says Codell. "The judge's opinion was resounding. He really regarded this case as important and understood the real-life issues. And I think Anthony handled himself heroically. He was regarded as a hero by many in the LGBT community, and not only by students, but also by many adults who admired his bravery and courage. Starting the club was a very noble way of responding to all those years of bullying."
Once the OUSD board realized it would have to spend huge amounts of cash it didn't have to defend the lawsuit, it folded. In September 2000, the board voted to finally allow the GSA to meet.
The club has been meeting ever since.
"I'm really proud of what we did and that we set a precedent because it means that queer kids are going to have a better time and have somewhere to be safe and supported," says Zetin. "It was really important to Anthony. He wanted to make the school and the world a better place for gay kids."
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After high school, Colin held several jobs. He worked in beauty salons and restaurants and did construction work for his father, Bob, an architect and contractor.
"He'd spend the day ripping off roofs or installing floors, then he'd come home, shower, put on some jazz and start crocheting," Jessie says.
Music, though, was his life. He loved to sing and hit the nearest karaoke bar, favoring smoky sirens such as Nina Simone, Sarah Vaughn and Billie Holiday. He also started performing in drag shows in full makeup at the since-demolished Ozz nightclub in Buena Park.
You can't do drag unless you've got a great drag name, and Colin had one: Lady Justice, a nod to his win over the OUSD. He also had an Albert Einstein quote tattooed on his arm in commemoration: "Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds."
"He chose Justice because of the fight he had, for his victory," says Shadya Guzman, a friend who instantly bonded with Colin when they met in 2004. "I found that out when we were watching TV one day, and Oprah came on—this was after I'd known him for a few years. He said, 'Oh, I was on that show!' and I was like, 'Yeah, right.' And he said 'No, for real!' That's when he opened up about all that."
In some ways, it seemed Colin was growing tired of being known as a public activist. He spoke often at LGBT events and was given several awards for what he did at El Modena. The GSA was lauded by the Orange County Human Relations Commission and the City of West Hollywood. But the attention was also exhausting.
"I think he had people who would be friends with him because of his association with the GSA, so maybe he held off telling people about that because he didn't want them to know unless he knew where he stood in the relationship," Guzman says.
"Tony opened a whole new set of avenues for other teens to have a voice," says Jessie. "But he used to say he never wanted to be a leader or a follower; he just wanted to be an individual."
Instead, Jessie says, her son became more of a personal activist.
"He talked to gay kids on the telephone and on Facebook all the time to counsel them," she says. "He would even talk to unwed mothers to help them. He would bring pregnant women into my home so we could feed them. Tony's big thing was respect. He wanted everyone to respect one another."
But self-worth issues began surfacing. Colin started experimenting with alcohol and drugs. He had severe bouts of depression. Around 2008, he tested positive for HIV. As happy, cheerful and outgoing as he often appeared to friends and family, on the inside, he was struggling.
This mofo would butt in other ppls business..almost knocked him out..then realized he was a fag and gave him a pass...still a sad way to go...r.i.p..
I remember Tony well. Being one of the only other out gay students we got to know each other. We shared a couple friends and he was around when we'd ditch class to smoke pot. I remember being harassed at school for being gay too, It was the reason I left at the end of my sophomore year. But shit that was going on around Tony was on a different level but he welcomed the attention and was always on the offensive. I tried to not make any waves, he wanted to ride them. He liked the attention and he wanted to stir up shit. He would walk down the halls offering to suck guys dicks and make other nasty comments. You could tell he was coming down the hall by the nearing hoops and hollars, cat calls and soda cans flying through the air. He was a bitchy vulgar queen at the ripe old age of 14. Something we are very familiar with in the gay community, but at a high school in orange county he was seen as a downright cunt. This story has many "facts" twisted about his efforts for the GSL. In fact his original intent was not to have a Gay-Straight alliance, but a gays only club. This was another part of tony being a bitchy queen and trying to make drama and why I chose not to support him. When he was asking people to sign his petition I said no and he slapped me. I told him to never come around me again and the next day at lunch he approached me and poured purple gatorade on me. We started to fight as a laughing crowd gathered to watch the school's two faggots claw at each other. He wore all these ugly beaded necklaces and all of these shiny black beads and plastic crucifixes went flying. We were suspended for two days. This guy wasn't trying to be a gay activist he just wanted to piss people off. I understand why he acted the way he did and he was unapologetic about it. Why when writing this legacy piece would you deny him the right to shine like the glittery asshole he was?
As tony wouldve said "Bitch, please".
l.daniels85 , I think maybe you need to see a shrink. Because the fact that you're sizing up your life now, to my DEAD cousin, is pathetic. No one gives a shit WHO you are now or what you've accomplished, when it is presented in the way you just did. Who are you to us? ill tell you, you're someone who didn't have the balls to actually go to Anthony after high school and express how you felt. Instead, you do it now when he's dead and cant defend himself, along with a couple others. Wanna know what's worse? you're a mother now. Bragging about how you're stronger because you didn't kill yourself, and he did. You disgust me. And I feel so sorry for your children. Everyone has there own opinions of others, and its your right. But don't bash someone who cant stand up for themselves just because an article was written and it wasn't about YOU. Let go of all your hate and resentment and jealousy of what your life USED to be like, and move the fuck on. EVERYBODY in high school and middle school was the same in one way or another. you're still learning, and growing, and experiencing the world. you're mean, sarcastic "Know it all's". not ONE person is innocent. And that includes you. Funny how you are judging someone after they're DEAD because when you were 15, there sin was different than yours. I hope and pray, that if something ever happens to one of your babies, some little bitch runs her mouth with complete disrespect just like you. and ONE MORE THING- You're so PROUD of yourself, for accomplishing so much more than someone who isn't alive, but as Anthony grew, at least he managed to learn how to respect everyone and treat them with love. Cant say the same for you. And you're a grown ass woman. now that, is sad.
I knew justice for a brief moment in my life and I can definitely say that he was a genuine person with a great heart. Just as every normal human being, he had his personal issues, but I can say that he was never anything less than himself, and that is something I feel is very admirable. It's a shame he only had a short time with us all but it wasn't without significance. He lent his voice and himself to the LGBT movement for equality in his own way and I am greatful to him for that. I'm also happy I had the chance to meet him. Humanity could stand to have more strong hearted people like justice to help make the world a better place. With love and appreciation, RIP Anthony Justice Colin.
People get so off topic to promote their own agendas. This story was to pay tribute to someone who lived to make a difference. Bunch of narcissists.
OC Weekly: Will you give me a referral? Besides Long Beach is full of sub-tabloid trannies- muck of the earth I tell you, muck of the earth... not worth writing about... not punk.
WHAAAAAAT is this crap?! O.o
OC weekly: do you even check the truth of the stories you publish??
Most of this is a crock lol I actually laughed thru most of it!! This can't be talkin about the same kid I knew. Guy was a dick. Gay straight whatever who cares, simple facts is he was a dick always harassing people. And biting people too if i remember right!? People talkin about karma in some of the comments........ Maybe karma came and got him!!
WOW he has always made me feel so honored to say that I not only knew him but that we shared the same blood line. He was truly a special person both inside and out. He had a love like no one I have ever met. The fact that I have seen so many ignorant people on here will not affect me because I knew the REAL Anthony, and quite honestly he never let what someone had to say about him "define" him. Pay attention to the facts people proof is in the puddn ;) GOD truly blessed us as his family to have gotten to have someone like him in our lives for the time we did have him, and boy did he make some moves when he was here. I think I speak for the whole family when I say "You make us so proud Toni, you truly make us PROUD" Such a BEAUTIFUL soul. Rest in Peace my sweet cousin, until we meet again! Xoxo Amber
First a couple of points, Carol: A) I was born and raised in CA, too. Right here in OC as a matter of fact. b) Old School Rocker is no doubt an idiot who's opinion I disagree with and if I saw him hassling someone for being gay, I would offer my assistance to the gay person........... Now, to answer your question, "Where do you get your statistics from?". I get them from the same place you got your "You give California a bad name" fact from. I made it up. However, many, many people think poorly of this state. This state has the highest income tax in the nation. This state is hostile towards business, hence the exodus. This state invites non citizens to come live here and leach off you and I. I could go on forever. As nice as this state is, it's pretty f'd up. I hear people complain all the time. Now, here's the key part: If you asked 1000 people who think poorly of CA why it is they think CA has a bad name, not one of them would say "because of Old School Rocker". That would make my statistic of "99.9999999%" pretty accurate. And that was my point. CA does a great job on it's own of giving CA a bad name. No one who thinks CA has a bad name would blame OSR for said bad name. Comprende?
As a grad from the original 4 years @ ELMO ('70) I am so proud that "Vanguards" are still found at my old school. True leaders still walk those hallways. Bravo!
Why is this even news? OC Weekly run out of tabloid articles and reduced itself to muck-raking? Terrible job OC Weekly you can never stoop too low. It's become pretty obvious you're supported by OC's Porn Industry.
While the "white redneck conservative" gets the msm attention when it comes to gay bashing
the fact is that the left is the cause of most of the harassment done to gay people
when the black churches rallied and rallied hard against gay marriage in CA
nada was really mentioned about that
after the defeat
the losing side posted names of people /companies, that supported the defeat of legalizing gay marriage
NOTICEABLY MISSING WAS THE INVOLVEMENT OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY / CHURCHES in the leftists attack against people who defeated the prop
why is that
YOUR EDITORIALIZATION is not allowed to be mixed in with any other part of the story when receiving this critic:
A boy being called a girl when he
a) has a braid
b) wants to be considered a female ( and at some level that is true)
THATS WHERE you lose support from many of us who support all good people in whatever way they choose to live
if you want to be a female ( or male) cause thats who you are, then its false to act upset when one treats you that way BUT
NOT IN THE MANNER YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED
a gay male who wants to wear or do actions that are associated with a female and is happy when those things cum his way,, has no right
/ little standing to complain if someone ( also) taunts them as
"Acting female" when its a female they are in fact acting like
This article is meant to stir up hate, and twist stories to get an agenda out there. I think we were more than tolerant with Tony. Hell I sat next to him in science, as he openly look at gay porn during class and bragged about what guy he slept with. He was more than open and nasty about his orientation. You can tell ( my opinion) he loved the attention. 8th grade tony tried to get me to date him. Nobody did anything to him. To paint him as a victim of hate because of his orientation is wrong. If anything he might (and i say might ) be a victim of bulling because he was annoying. Sorry I was there when it all happened and its not like the article says.
@Kevin J Cruz lol what does it make you look like you sure took the time to read it...fucking fool lmao
No one liked this comment u posted cus u sound like a tweeker.. vomiting words from the mouth. It could have been written better but guess what its there and its out! And u and everyone in oc is reading it and the ppl reading this kno ur a homohater and know ur name. Dont be suprised if ur name ends up on every telemarketing list now cus I doubt ur unlisted.
@ajphilips72 You know, instead of trying to stifle fee speech, why don't you and your family stop reading people's opinions?? Take control of the part that you can control.
Yeah he's gonna act female and then get upset when people try to treat him like it. does that make sense? No. Dude was out there all feminine gestures and in your face with his being gay. Prancing around making comments about who's dick he sucked last night and shit. I don't walk around walking up to gay men and acting extra macho and manly and making sure they hear me braggig loudly to the world about all the pussy ive eaten to really really make them see that I'm straight!! Cause that would be ridiculous right? Right. If your gay that's fine whatever I don't care but I don't need to hear about you sucking dick and taking up the ass...!
@sweetliberty17761776 for a moment if at all possible step out of your ignorance...or just plain stupidity and think about what you just said, now try...TRY to step into his shoes, he is living in a society where who he is WHO HE IS not understood, not accepted, not cared about and he is labeled and all but crucified for JUST BEING all he knows to be, HIMSELF. Therefore he is making decisions to try to bend to society when in all reality he can't and at some point won't hide who he is...is it really his fault...IS IT REALLY A FAULT AT ALL?? your a fool if you honestly think that it made him some sort of happy, or that he or any gay person for that matter happy to be made to feel like they are not just as good, just as important, just as capable of love and acceptance. now after reading what you just wrote i'm almost certain that you will continue on your path of misunderstanding, and ignorance but just know life has a "strange" way of coming around and biting you in the ass, just remember that, so weather your own mother father or child comes out as gay or a cross dresser, or hiv positive, etc, your ignorant words will come back to bite you...mark my words. now yes i am his cousin, and i would defend him to the death, but this time around it's not about that at all for me, it's about logic plain and simple common logic.
Yup exactly No_comment. Open and nasty. Look what sleeping around and illegal drug using gets you kids... HIV. Lets learn and avoid
As if straight guys didnt brag about fucking girls.. ur dumb. He was a guy! A guys talk about fucking. He had no filter for the straight peers. In fact he pushed the line because he had been bullied for so long.. I thought everyone learned thaf bullies were once bullied before too and thats why they do it. Thats how we learn to tolerate.
Tony was lit on fire in 7th grade and thrown down the stairs at santiago. Then forced to change in the girls bathroom at pe cus none of the guys wanted to him there. obviously u were a victim of witnessing someone degress because of insecurity and bullying. Duh dummy.. we all learned in elementary that a bully is just scared of who he is and that all bullys have been bullied and thats how they get their demeanor. Its mirrored. And for little boys who were trying to make girls uncomfortable at that age he did the same thing. Douche
I just posted something along those line
we have to laugh and feel appreciated when a gay male hits up on a straight male
and as a decent person it should be no problem
but it can also be bullying on their part to hit up on a straight person and then claim "gaydar"
which would be just as wrong if a female was bullying a gay male to "go straight"
@justice It's better than most mainstream crap out there. OC weekly rocks.
Amber ur aunt started talking shit thinking my comments were about her cus I said tweaker. Dumb ass erased it when she realized I was talking to the dude u commented on. Check that bitch
@ajphilips I never said anything regarding Tony or attacked his personality and my statement was to SweetLiberty. I talked about how life for the other 2,000 students at El Modena was. I had interactions with Tony that weren't great where he belittled me for my clothing and even my height.... but if you would like, I can post about those? But like you said, my parents taught me manners. And yes, I have accomplished great things with my life. If you don't like what people are saying on a Public Forum then stay off.
Ya it did , especially when it was in class around other people. He had no respect for others. If your going to live your life like that, do it privately other than a place where I cant walk away from.
Twisted Logic, we have to tolerate bulling because bullies where bullied. Emotionalism is not logic. I'm sorry he was bullied gay or straight no one desires it, but he was a bully himself.
Only one problem with that logic. I was bullied horribly by him and others. Called nasty names, beat up, had food dumped on my head (by him) etc. but you know what? I never fought back or did any of those horrible things to anyone else. So no. Being bullied is NEVER an excuse or some sort of free pass to make someone else's life miserable.
@ajphilips72 @No_comment Not attacking , simply truth. I knew him personally . I personally don't agree with the gay lifestyle , but as a person I believe I was respectful of his lifestyle, but he himself was a bully, if you didn't agree with him in any way. I don't agree with this article, making someone a hero, with out knowing the truth behind everything. I'm sorry he wasn't person that promoted love.Again I am truly sorry that someone who loved him lost him. But my argument is only on the fact of truth with this article not moral.