Vaya Con Mom

After their mother was deported to Mexico, the Brito children embarked on a two-year journey trying to navigate life in the United States on their own

Vaya Con Mom

Morning light peeks over the horizon on a Sunday in August. Inside an Anaheim warehouse, four siblings stand in silence. The Brito kids—Orange County natives who spent much of their childhood fending for themselves—are waiting for a group of strangers to take them on a road trip to Mexico.

A few minutes later, Tarcisio Magaña, owner of a local automobile-repair shop and a member of Los Amigos of Orange County, maneuvers a boxy white van through the southbound lanes of Interstate 5. Amin David, the longtime leader of Los Amigos, fires questions at the kids. "Are you excited or nervous?" he asks. "What's the first thing you're going to tell her?"

Diana, 20, giggles at the questions and shrugs her shoulders. Araceli, 18, and Eduardo, 16, respond in unison: "I have no idea." Isela, 17, smiles but continues to gaze at passing cars. The sun is starting to rise, and the freeway lights mix with the dawn, casting a soft, promising glow on the landscape ahead. Magaña pulls his eyes from the road for second and looks at the kids via the rear-view mirror. "This is going to be one of those moments that makes you say, 'This is life,' you know?" he says in Spanish.

Eduardo Brito meets up in Rosarito with his mom, Ana Maria Sanchez Mateo
Marisa Gerber
Eduardo Brito meets up in Rosarito with his mom, Ana Maria Sanchez Mateo
Isela Brito and her mom, Ana Maria Sanchez Mateo
Marisa Gerber
Isela Brito and her mom, Ana Maria Sanchez Mateo
Ana hugs Diana, Araceli and Eduardo
Marisa Gerber
Ana hugs Diana, Araceli and Eduardo
The Brito family and members of 
Los Amigos make a pit stop near Puerto Nuevo
Marisa Gerber
The Brito family and members of Los Amigos make a pit stop near Puerto Nuevo

A hundred miles and a breakfast-burrito stop later, Magaña slows the van to stop. In the distance, shacks line the border wall; to the right of the road a sign reads, "WARNING: Guns/ammo illegal in Mexico Frontera Internaciónal 2 km." Tijuana is just a few minutes away. After getting waved through the U.S.-Mexico border by the federales, Magaña gets to a toll-road pay station, rolls down the window and hands a couple of dollars to the woman running it.

"Where should we stop?" David asks rhetorically. "We're going to stop at the McDonald's there in Rosarito, okay?"

Isela nods and nudges Araceli. "Okay, text Mom," Isela tells her sister. "Tell her we're almost here."

About an hour later, the van enters a parking lot; the kids hurry into the pristine, brightly lit McDonald's. Their mom isn't there yet, so the Britos sit around a square, plastic table and wait. Diana tosses a bracelet back and forth between her hands as Araceli crosses her arms over her chest and cranes her neck to look out the window. European dance beats pulse in the background.

Suddenly, someone says, "I think that's her." The Britos swoop their heads in unison toward the door as a small woman with a neatly kept bun and deep wrinkles around her dark-brown eyes walks through the door and runs to the table. Her four kids jump up, and all at once, they hug their mami. Kisses, tears and "I love you"s drown out the music as Ana Maria Sanchez Mateo, 45, nuzzles the head of each of her kids, whom she hasn't seen in months.

* * *

On Dec. 8, 2008, a teacher told Araceli to report to her Reno high school's front office. "I didn't know what was going on," she says now, as she sits on a couch at the Britos' apartment in Anaheim. "They say, 'Okay, calm down, don't worry, but your mom was deported.'"

The then-16-year-old left the office and aimlessly roamed the halls of her school. The Britos had moved to San Diego from Orange County, and then to Nevada for their dad's job seven years earlier. Ana Maria and her husband had since separated, with their dad moving to the Midwest. Finally, Araceli ran into Isela. The sisters locked eyes, and Araceli blurted out, "Mom was deported."

They knew their mom, who had lived in the U.S. for more than 20 years, had an interview with immigration officials earlier in the day, but they expected her to come home with a green card. They'd later find out that because of her past immigration record, Ana Maria wasn't eligible for one. A victim of domestic violence, she had been living and working legally in the U.S. for several years; under the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) of 1994, the government granted her work authorization. Once she was eligible for, but not guaranteed, a green card, the government stopped granting her work authorization.

Araceli and Isela found Diana, told her what had happened, and together, they planned their next step. First, they had to track down Eduardo, who went to a different school, and convince administrators to let them leave. "They're like, 'You don't have a mom; you don't have a dad. Where are you gonna go?'" Isela recalls.

One of the girls called their father, who lived in Chicago at the time; he called a friend and asked him to pick up the kids. They'd never met the man, but they wanted the ride home.

The man picked up the girls, then Eduardo, and dropped them off at their house. Upon arriving at the front door, the kids realized they didn't have any keys. On a hunch, Eduardo jumped onto the porch and tried to open the door. It was unlocked. He let his sisters in. Waiting for them were several messages from their mami, sobbing that she was about to get deported.

The shock wore off; the tears poured out.

"We were contacting our dad, and we were trying to contact our uncle, too," Araceli says. "We were just trying to figure out what to do. And so, finally, we decided to go to Mexico."

A week or so later, when they left Reno, the food their mom had cooked for them the morning she was unceremoniously deported remained untouched on the table. They packed some clothes and a few pots and pans and waited for their dad to show up. Unable to get a flight out of Chicago, he drove to Nevada. He thought his children wanted to move with him to where he lived in Wisconsin, but the children refused. But their uncle, who lives in Santa Ana, showed up before their dad and took the Britos to Mexico.

In Tijuana, they met up with their mom and spent a night in a hotel. After her arrest in Reno, Ana Maria was processed and jailed there. Then, after taking both a plane and a bus and making several stops along the way, customs officials dropped her and several others off in Tijuana and offered them no tips. If there was a shelter for deportees nearby, she didn't know about it. She stumbled upon the hotel, somehow scrounging up enough money to afford a stay and make contact with her niños.

For the next month or so, Ana Maria and her children lived with family friends in Rosarito, in the same room where she lives now, subsisting only on bread. The family relocated to Ana Maria's home state, Querétaro, a state her children barely knew, bouncing from one aunt's house to another. "My mom didn't want to be a nuisance in their houses, so she's like, 'We might as well spread it out.' Eventually, we rented our own little house," Isela says.

They lived in Querétaro for almost a year and tried their best to assimilate, essentially living life as illegal immigrants in Mexico. "It was so different. The homework, socializing with other people, everything," Araceli says. The children had to attend school unofficially because they didn't have papers to show Mexican citizenship. But the family slowly settled into life in Mexico, planning to live there permanently. Then their father, furious his children sided with Ana Maria, suddenly stopped sending child-support checks. Now, there was no money coming in from anywhere. [Editor's note: A misspelling in the preceding two paragraphs was corrected. Please see the end of the story for details.]

Ana Maria decided a change was necessary, albeit it a painful one: She'd return to Rosarito, and the kids would relocate to Wisconsin with their dad. It was September 2009, and this time, they at least got to say goodbye.

* * *

Their uncle picked them up in Tijuana and drove them to Santa Ana; they stayed the night with a woman they'd never met, a relative on their dad's side. She dropped them off at John Wayne Airport the next morning. At Chicago O'Hare airport, the Britos saw their dad for the first time in years, accompanied by a woman they didn't recognize. The children figured it was his new girlfriend, but he shrugged off their questions, claiming he'd explain later.

He never did. The kids spent their days holed up in a single room in a townhouse. Their father and "that lady," as the Britos derisively call her, stayed in a different room; the woman's four sons lived in a third room. "It was a small house for a big family," Araceli says, adding that she lost 10 pounds because they had nothing to eat. The kids didn't go to school because their dad said he couldn't afford school supplies. "He has a good job, but he just doesn't know how to manage his money, so he spends it all," she explains.

Araceli, Diana, Eduardo and Isela scrounged through the pantries and lived off canned corn and pancakes for a month, trying to pass the time. Finally, the four called their mom, begging her to rescue them. Ana Maria and her relatives in Querétaro gathered some money and started to look for plane tickets.

But the kids had to convince their dad to let them go. "He wouldn't let us. He made Mom sign some notary paper saying she'd take full responsibility for us if anything happened," Eduardo says. The paperwork eventually went through, and they flew back to Orange County, where they spent a month living in Santa Ana with a couple of their cousins in a single rented room. "We just slept on the floor, lined up, but, I mean, that was like heaven to us because we actually ate, we slept, we didn't have to worry about anything," Araceli recalls.

Soon, the money was gone, and they traveled back to Rosarito to buy some time. By now, they'd missed more than a semester of school. So, in February 2010, Diana and Araceli moved to Santa Ana to live with their uncle. "I was trying to find a job, but nothing. They want high-school diplomas, and I didn't even have that," Araceli says. She and Diana enrolled at Valley High School and applied for welfare through the state's social-services department. They got $200 in emergency funds, which they sent back to Rosarito because the others were starving.

Things stabilized a bit, and Isela and Eduardo moved to Santa Ana, too, and started attending school. But they didn't get along with their uncle's wife and had to move out. They rented a room from an aunt's brother who also lived in Santa Ana. That, too, ended up being a bad situation. "Those people were just horrible with us," Araceli says. "They were mean and rude. We were not comfortable at all."

Thankfully, the tide started to turn in their favor. Roselinn Lee, Araceli's AP U.S. history teacher at Valley and the wife of Santa Ana-area state Assemblyman Jose Solorio, remembers the day she pulled Araceli out of class to talk. "I go, 'What's going on? You're not coming to school,'" Lee says. "She said, 'Well, I didn't have money to come to school. Bus money.' I said, 'Bus money is, like, $1.25. Where do you live? What's going on?' She explained to me her situation, so I ask, 'Do you even have money to eat today?' and she says no. I just said, 'Oh, my God, this is just beyond . . . and I pulled out a 20 and gave it to her, and she starts crying."

Lee made it her mission to get the kids out of the "hellhole" they were living in. She emailed her husband to ask if he had any connections; Solorio forwarded the email to the Orange County Housing Authority, which said housing might be a possibility. In the meantime, Lee sent emails to fellow teachers, who collected money for the Britos. She also worked out deals with her husband to pay the kids to help at his events.

Everyone at Valley High School was really supportive, the Britos say, but it was Lee and Vice Principal Anuar Shalash (who has since left the school) who went above and beyond. When the kids were approved for low-incoming housing a few months later, they moved to an apartment in Anaheim, where they now live; Shalash got donations to help them furnish it.

Lee dropped the kids off after an event and got to see the apartment. "It was really nice to see that they had separate bedrooms and a kitchen," she says. "They were so dedicated to one another as a family, and they were so committed to doing well here. They're just the sweetest kids ever. They just needed a little help."

They finished that year at Valley High School but ended up transferring to Anaheim High School the next year because it was closer.

* * *

At a scholarship-awards night earlier this year, the Britos met a couple of people who also wanted to help them. One was Amin David, the round-faced, perpetually peppy septuagenarian who led the Latino civil-rights group Los Amigos for 30 years before stepping down this year. David says he attended the scholarship program on a whim, adding that he's glad he did.

"They're angels; they're babies—and babies need their mom," says David, who owns the Anaheim plumbing warehouse where the group met before their road trip to Rosarito, which he helped plan.

Another person was Mario Zapata, an associate attorney at Costa Mesa-based Nicastro Piscopo, an immigration-law firm. Zapata is now representing the family pro bono to help Ana Maria return. While he admits it's "an uphill climb,"  Zapata is working to get the Britos' mother a U Visa, which would grant her a four-year stay in the U.S. The government can give out as many as 10,000 U Visas per year to victims of certain crimes, including domestic violence, Zapata says. Normally, this would be a slam-dunk case, he says, but there are a couple of complicating factors at play.

In 2000, while living in San Diego, Ana Maria called the police after getting into a fight with her husband. Since she was married to—and victimized by—a U.S. resident, Ana Maria self-petitioned for a U Visa under VAWA and was approved, Zapata says, which meant she also got work authorization. For several years, she worked in hotels and at various fast-food restaurants. Sometime in 2007, Ana Maria filed a green-card application. It wasn't until December 2008, however, that immigration officials got in touch with her and asked her to come in. Ana Maria assumed it was for an interview, but really, the officials wanted to arrest and deport her.

She was deported for making a false claim of U.S. Citizenship in 1998, Zapata explains, which is taken very seriously in immigration-law circles. "You're committing fraud against the government, and as far as immigration law, you're permanently barred." In order to get the U Visa, the arresting agency or a judge who handled the case can sign off on a certification saying the person was, in fact, the victim of a crime and that they assisted with any investigation. In cases when he's able to get that signature, Zapata says, the U Visa is almost guaranteed.

Whether he can get the signature, though, isn't certain. "It's unfortunate because I might have the same type of victims," he says, "but in different cities, and I can do something for one of them that I might not be able to do for another."

He has never worked with agencies in San Diego before, and he says he knows it will be tough since it's an old crime. "I've looked at every other option," Zapata says. "The only other thing I can think of, maybe, would be getting a [state] senator's bill specifically for her, and that's likely publicity a senator would not want."  The fact that two of the kids are still minors helps, of course. "Look, the only reason she wants to come here is to raise her kids while they're still kids."

* * *

At the morning of the McDonald's rendezvous in Rosarito, Ana Maria spent the first few minutes inundating her kids with "mom questions," as they call them. "How's school?" "What did you eat yesterday?" Then, out of the corner of her eye, she catches a glimpse of the group of strangers—some with expressionless stares, others with misty eyes—watching them. In Spanish, Ana Maria thanks David for bringing her kids to see her, and then she thanks the group again in accented, articulate English.

"Let's go to Puerto Nuevo to eat, yeah?" David asks.

"Of course. With my kids, I can go anywhere," Ana Maria responds.

First, though, the family splits off from the group for a bit of alone time. After, amid spurts of laughter, the family walks toward the McDonald's parking lot with linked arms. Everyone piles into the van for the trip to Puerto Nuevo.

Before a late lunch, they browse nearby curio shops. At one, Ana Maria notices Mexican jumping beans for sale and immediately furrows her brow. "Why are they moving?" she asks a shopkeeper. "What's inside?"

"A little animal" is the response.

"Well, then, what do they eat?"

"Well, nothing."

"Ay, pobrecitos," Ana Maria says as she shakes her head. She then runs up behind Isela and flings her arm around her daughter's waist.

Finally, the family shuffles through the restaurant and to a back porch overlooking the Pacific Ocean. As a mariachi band sings of Michoacán and waves crash onto the sand, Ana Maria grabs Diana's hand from the table, pulls it to her mouth, and kisses it over and over. Her eyes fill with tears as she says, "I am so, so proud of them all. In the almost year and a half that they've lived by themselves, they've grown up so much."

* * *

Everyone slurps down the last of their margaritas and lobster, and the kids give David a glass pen with his name on it that they picked up at a curio shop earlier. It is time for another goodbye. Nobody cries, really. No one says much of anything. The kids huddle around their mom, and she recites a mantra of sorts: "Hasta pronto, hasta pronto, hasta pronto." See you soon. The van door slides shut, and the group heads north.

As the van inches toward San Diego, everyone gets out documentation—a combination of passports, birth certificates and school IDs. A bristly, barrel-chested U.S. Customs and Border Protection officer looks inside the crowded van and sighs. He opens the door and peers toward the back. "Who's your guardian?" he asks.

The kids point to Diana. She isn't really their guardian, but their mom is afraid that in the process of securing guardianship for her or Araceli, they may risk the younger kids being sent to Child Protective Services.

"Okay, why don't you guys have passports? You really need passports," the officer says.

This happens every time they cross back into the U.S., Araceli says. "I tell them that they're expensive, and they say, 'No, they're not. They're only $55 or something.' And I'm like, 'Yeah, that's a lot.'"

Even if they did have the money, they'd still need their parents or a legal guardian to sign off on a passport. Since neither is an option, they say, they'll keep chancing it and crossing the border with their birth certificates and IDs.

On the trip back to Orange County, Sergio Muñoz, a member of Los Amigos, plays a game with the kids called M.A.S.H.—or mansion, apartment, shack or house. The schoolyard favorite predicts what kind of jobs and cars they'll have in the future and where they'll live. Amid talk of Mustangs and Maui, they dream of their actual futures. "I imagine someday each of us having a career, having a good job, and even a nice house or something," Isela says. At the same time, Araceli and Eduardo chime in with "One day."

For now, they're working toward their goals. Araceli works at a Santa Ana restaurant that Muñoz manages, Casa Oaxaca. The Britos used to survive off about $500 worth of food stamps and $800 in child support from their dad per month. Rent is $470, but they're still making payments toward a security deposit. Between bills, cleaning supplies, bus passes and sending money to help their mom, there's no extra cash.

The Britos sacrifice a lot, but they don't complain. The four spent Columbus Day at home, cleaning. As they sat inside their dark living room (they often keep the lights off to save on electricity), Isela mentioned that homecoming had been that weekend. They didn't go. Tickets were $50, she says. "We'd rather save that. I think there are more important things to spend that on. But, maybe prom. Hopefully."

While Araceli and Diana intend to start at Fullerton College next semester, Isela and Eduardo are working on finishing high school at Anaheim High. Isela was asked to apply for the QuestBridge program, which would have offered her a full ride to several Ivy League schools, but she opted against it to stay closer to her siblings; she's applying to several UC schools, instead. Eduardo was accepted to the Simon Scholars Program for disadvantaged but successful students last year. He gets $60,000 to spend at any four-year college once he's done at Anaheim.

In a weird way, Araceli, Diana, Eduardo and Isela are grateful for the way things turned out. "Before all of this, we were spoiled 'cause we had everything," Isela says. "We took for granted the Internet, having a car—all of that. We thought, 'Oh, we have this. We need more.' Now it's like, no, you work for it and you don't always have what you want."

More than anything, it has helped them value their relationships with one another and with their mother.

"There was this girl I remember . . . She was really mad at her mom," Eduardo says. "She was like, 'Oh, I wanna punch her.' And I'm thinking, 'If I only had my mom here, and she wants to punch hers.'"

 

CORRECTION, Oct. 20, 2011: In the original version of this story, the name of the Mexican state of Querétaro was misspelled twice. TheWeekly regrets the error.

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DerailAmnesty.com
DerailAmnesty.com

The kids should never have come back from Mexico. They shouldn't have been born here in the first place b/c their mother is an illegal. She knew she never had any promise of any permanent residency.

This situation is just unfair to American taxpayers and citizens who have to endure their presence and pick up the tab for their expense.

Piney
Piney

I'm going to add one last thing: these "children" sound as if they've received and are receiving far more than I did in my youth. And I worked my own way through college -- took me much longer than others -- while paying my own rent, food, going without a car, my own school costs (all of it, for years), bought my own health insurance, paid my own medical costs and other insurance, bought or made my own clothes...

And lived alone even as a teenager. I found my father years later while my mother had distanced herself from me the very day I turned seventeen for her own emotional reasons.

I went to Mexico for a while to do volunteer work at an orphanage after hearing how deprived the children there were. I saved my own spare money, what little I had, to buy them basic toiletries and clothing to deliver to them. I was surprised to find that the children there had more than I ever had as a child, yet they didn't take care of what they had, taking much of what was given to them for granted.

I understand that there was no adult leadership there to set an example of how to care for possessions and self, but, the point is, there are many people from and in Mexico who have far more than many Americans ever have and yet we continue to read about how much more they take from this nation. It's wrong, it reveals an untrustworthiness about their culture, not ours.

Piney
Piney

Neither parent is supporting these children, so the U.S. taxpayers are (food stamps, housing, educations...).

I also note that the children excuse themselves from obtaining U.S. passports due to expense, yet they and their parents/relatives seem to have been able to pay for an awful lot of air travel all over the U.S. and back again, also the "van" trips to and from Mexico, all of which in today's economy, is indicative of expensive travel. Perhaps there is more to the story than they're admitting, as to them obtaining U.S. passports?

I'm sorry their mother was deported but she lied about her citizenship which is a serious offense, not only legally but on a civic basis to our U.S. society. It sounds to me that she, the mother (as perhaps also the father here) have spent a lot of time trying to work the system to their advantages while then maintaining a pretense of somehow being deserving of more. I don't think either of these parents is trustworthy. And I think the attorney quoted in this story sounds like he is trying to exploit our laws by one location versus another.

And, I wonder, IF the children were all born in the U.S., who paid for their medical care (delivery when they were born here, health care during their younger years, etc.)? I'm betting the U.S. taxpayers paid for all that, too.

Now they're all planning on attending U.S. higher education institutions and I'm betting they're all planning on that being paid for by the U.S. taxpayers -- UC tuition is not cheap, nor is attending a UC campus for four or more years for an undergraduate degree.

I am sorry these people have not planned to support themselves well if at all. But the U.S. taxpayers pay royally for such as these and it's time for those who cause these conditions of their own poverty and illegality to face the music: they're responsible for themselves and their children. I'm thinking there is more to the story, also, as to why their father didn't want them attending school in the U.S. while living with him -- likelier than not, he was attempting to keep their presence and his responsibility to them private so as not to disturb whatever else he was benefiting from (like housing, welfare, etc.).

I grow weary from these stories about people such as these. They seem to think the American taxpayers are rolling in money that "should be redirected" to whoever can lie better than others and manipulate them out of resources. And the mother wants to return to the U.S. using "for the children" as her excuse? What does she expect she'd do if she was able to return? Be supported by the taxpayers again? Work illegally again?

Sandi
Sandi

Thank you Marisa for a wonderful article.

Anon
Anon

Well-written story. I have no sympathy for anyone described here, except maybe for the father who is working his a** off in East BF Wisc. to support his and his girlfriend's eight kids.

Jerry Vazquez
Jerry Vazquez

Ulyses GrantMany Northerners believed that Polk, a Southerner, was trying to gain land for the slaveholding South. Other Americans simply thought it was wrong to use war to take land from Mexico. Among those was Second Lieutenant Ulysses S. Grant .He would later call the war "one of the most unjust ever waged by a stronger against a weaker nation. It was an instance of a republic following the bad example of European monarchies, in not considering justice in their desire to acquire additional territory."

Abraham LincolnCongressman Lincoln and some of his fellow Whigs had a very different opinion of the president, Manifest Destiny, and the war. Lincoln believed that Polk had started the war based on a lie. On two notable occasions, Lincoln questioned Polk regarding his motives for going to war. Lincoln once took the House floor and asked Polk to prove that the Mexicans had crossed national borders in order to draw first blood on U.S. soil. This is what Polk claimed was the reason for the Mexican War. Upon addressing the president, Lincoln said: "Let the President [Polk] answer the interrogatories I proposed... Let him answer fully, fairly, candidly. Let him answer with facts, and not with arguments. Let him remember, he sits where Washington sat; and so remembering, let him answer as Washington would answer... so let him attempt no evasion, no equivocation."

John Quincy AdamsAnother issue on which he was most combative was his opposition to the Mexican War.It was on this issue about the Mexican War that John Quincy Adams’ final vote in Congress was cast. There were many others, including Congressman Abraham Lincoln, also opposed to the war. John Quincy Adams also voted “no” in 1848 when a measure was called that commended veterans of recent battles to that still ongoing war.

Representative Rovert Toombs "This war is nondescript.... We charge the President with usurping the war-making power... with This war is nondescript.... We charge the President with usurping the war-making power... with seizing a country... which had been for centuries, and was then in the possession of the Mexicans.... Let us put a check upon this lust of dominion. We had territory enough, Heaven knew"

Representative Joshua Giddingsled a group of dissenters in Washington D.C. He called the war with Mexico "an aggressive, unholy, and unjust war," and voted against supplying soldiers and weapons. He said:In the murder of Mexicans upon their own soil, or in robbing them of their country, I can take no part either now or here-after. The guilt of these crimes must rest on others. I will not participate in them.

U.S. soldiers' memoirs describe cases of scalping innocent civilians, the rape and murder of women, the murder of children, the burning of homes, and the desecrating of Catholic religious objects and buildings. One officer's diary records:“We reached Burrita about 5 pm, many of the Louisiana volunteers were there, a lawless drunken rabble. They had driven away the inhabitants, taken possession of their houses, and were emulating each other in making beasts of themselves.[59]”

John L. O'Sullivan, a vocal proponent of Manifest Destiny, later recollected:“The regulars regarded the volunteers with importance and contempt ... [The volunteers] robbed Mexicans of their cattle and corn, stole

their fences for firewood, got drunk, and killed several inoffensive inhabitants of the town in the streets.

Meerkat47
Meerkat47

Yeah, the mother is so irresponsible for having children without magically knowing that she would split up with her husband because he was abusive. How dare she fail to predict the future!

Sarah S.
Sarah S.

A powerful story about the real effects of our current immigration policies - ripping families apart, stopping kids that could be productive members of society from focusing on education and jobs, and generally causing heartbreak and chaos. Thanks for your article and attention to these issues.

jay
jay

As you can see here...all these people posting here just want people to come to this country legally...its not hard....i welcome imagration ..as long as its on paper...the state cant set a budget unless we know exactly how much money legal citizens need..thats why cali is so much in debt...if your gonna come here...do it the rite way! VIVA AMERICA!

Nativo Lopez IX
Nativo Lopez IX

If you are an illegal immigrant you need to be repatriated to your home country. There, you will fluently speak your native tongue and never be asked to produce a social security number. You will be one with your people and sleep easier as a result.

mitch young
mitch young

"They lived in Querétaro for almost a year and tried their best to assimilate, essentially living life as illegal immigrants in Mexico.

Mexican law states that any child of a Mexican citizen is a Mexican. They should have figured out how to document the mother's Mexican citizenship and then get the kids documents.

"It was so different. The homework, socializing with other people, everything," Araceli says. The children had to attend school unofficially because they didn't have papers to show Mexican citizenship. But the family slowly settled into life in Mexico, planning to live there permanently. "

Sounds like a good plan. Mexico is supposed to be famous for 'familia' -- why didn't family take care of them until they adjusted?

kuewa
kuewa

What you are asking is "why didn't those Mexican people live according to a stereotype"? Well, that's probably because individuals are not slaves to a stereotype. And I can just imagine that some of the family in Mexico may have been offended by their relatively well-to-do American relatives mooching off of them. Four great kids and a loving mother who wanted only the best for her children; she accepted the risk and was deported. I don't see any justification for the meanness in some of the posted comments.And immigration officials could have done a better job of making sure the minor children were properly cared for before trucking mom; after all, they are US citizens. Perhaps the adult sister should have been appointed guardian so that they could at least obtain passports, maintain school registration, etc.

mitch young
mitch young

Why should the United States be responsible for this woman's children? Is the state responsible for people who get foreclosed on? Don't those kids have to adjust to new circumstances, often times moving in with grandparents, moving to a 'downmarket' school district, or something similar.

It is also time to readdress the "birthright citizenship" thing. It is a side effect of both Anglo-Saxon common law and the need to get ex-slaves recognized as citizens. It really is disfunctional in modern times. There have already been some noises about it from politicians, hopefully that will grow in the future.

Piney
Piney

Stop it with the implications that someone's a racist because you are, more than likely.

The U.S. citizens can and should determine our nation's immigration policies and there's nothing wrong with requiring people who want to come here and live and work to dedicate themselves to our nation including embracing our Constitution and what it represents ("the rule of law"), AND who can offer an intellectual contribution to our civilization.

What is it, something like one-third OR MORE of Mexico's adult population is now in the U.S., both legally AND illegally? Seems to me that Mexico has more than received enough in terms of U.S. generosity - and now it's time for people from elsewhere to immigrate here if and when they plan to become citizens (meaning, by a legal process, immigration). "Illegal" is a behavior, it's not a race.

kuewa
kuewa

`Children do not get "foreclosed on." I'm not sure what version of the US you live in, but the US that I live in takes care of children who are abused, neglected, abandoned or removed from their parents by the government (as was the case here). Citizenship by birthright is based on English common law and is included on Article 2 of our Constitution. What you are referring to is the 14th amendment which was passed to confirm that both birthright citizenship and citizenship by naturalization applied to all people, not only whites. This was preceded by several legal opinions that birthright citizenship applied to all persons born in the US, including children born to slaves. The main issue pertained to naturalization of immigrant slaves and other non-white immigrants, and this was resolved by the 14th amendment.. I hope I am mistaken, but you seem to want racial limitations placed on birthright citizenship.

Guest
Guest

Serves her right. She knew what she was getting into coming here illegally.

It sucks for the kids, but she really should have considered the consequences.

JoeCommentor
JoeCommentor

Sad story?

Classic 'Mexican is a victim' pile o mierda.

Itburns
Itburns

"Diana enrolled at Valley High School and applied for welfare through the state's social-services department. They got $200 in emergency funds, which they sent back to Rosarito".

I have to send THE STATE $100 a month to pay for taxes owed from 2009, whilst struggling to keep my nostrils above the waterline. Good to see that the funds are being sent to a foreign country, while I tell my kids that they must do without. Nice.

mitch young
mitch young

I suggest making major purchases outside the state if at all possible -- Arizona, Nevada, even Mexico! Also many online retailers still do not charge tax. Hit California where it hurts until they stop not only encouraging illegal immigration, but subsidizing it.

Teresa
Teresa

great story. I disagree with some of the commenters above comparing her "fugitive" status to that of a murderer. I could go to the other extreme and compare her "fugitive" status to that of a person having minimal bench warrant for missing on a traffic ticket court date, but I won't because its similarly nonsense. The article simply follows the journey of these children's lives, and how they have found ways to succeed (or attempt at it) despite their surrounding problems. If Sherie actually read the story with comprehension, rather then generalize it as another "illegal immigrant" story, she would notice that her "children" are not all adults.

Bill T.
Bill T.

I would agree with your take, immigration violation is a misdemeaner ("civil" offense), not a felony (normally what is referred to as "criminal"). Folks can like it or not but that`s what it is.

Sherie Cleere
Sherie Cleere

Sad story but no different than any other fugitive on the run from the law. There was a woman recently arrested for a murder she committed over 20 years ago. Since the murder, she straightened up, got married, had children and abided by the law. But guess what? She was sent to prison. She did this to herself. This mother was willing to take this chance with her kids. Not a very good mother. Her "children" are adults now. Hopefully they will learn from this and not break the law or if they do, hopefully they won't have children and drag them through this same nonsense.

Sherie Cleere
Sherie Cleere

Sad story but no different than any other fugitive on the run from the law. There was a woman recently arrested for a murder she committed over 20 years ago. Since the murder, she straightened up, got married, had children and abided by the law. But guess what? She was sent to prison. She did this to herself. This mother was willing to take this chance with her kids. Not a very good mother. Here "children" are adults now. Hopefully they will learn from this and not break the law or if they do, hopefully they won't have children and drag them through this same nonsense.

Evil_white_person
Evil_white_person

It is a very touching and sad story. That said, who is to blame for the kids being motherless? Certain people will blame the enforcement people, but I blame the mother who knew she was not here legally.There are people who live like the kids do who are completely legal and work at decent jobs because they have no money after the government takes its "fair share" to pay for illegals.

Alva
Alva

Very sad story. Please note that when the kids went back to Queretaro, they couldn't go to school because they lacked mexican citizenship documents.

Hopefully stories like this will cause more parents to consider the consequences before breaking immigration laws.

Myoung2
Myoung2

Child of Mexican citizen=Mexican citizen. Get the documents. Somehow Areceli could manage to apply for a green card, claim 'domestic abuse' victim status with all that paperwork, but couldn't figure out how to get her own and her kids Mexican documents in order?

FP
FP

As Georgetown University Professor Michael Eric Dyson notes:

Immigration policies are directed against Jose. They are not directed against Jurgen. Because we want Jurgen to come over here and help us on the super-information highway, whereas we fear Jose wants to take our jobs!

He hit the nail right on the head. What else can I say?

me123
me123

No, Child of Mexican citizen does not equal Mexican citizen if that child was born in the US. Don't they teach social studies in our schools anymore? There is this thing called the 14th amendment, which refers to birthright citizenship

Bill T.
Bill T.

Do you mean to say that if the kids have U. S. citizenship they can't have other? Not recognized by U.S. but dual citizenship is very real, my grandkids have both U.S. and German pass ports. Can't speak to Mexican law on the issue, how about someone with actual expertise on that piping up?

 
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