You are the nice man who noticed the confused, elderly lady in the busy supermarket parking lot in South Orange County. You had been observing her as she wheeled her shopping cart in ever-increasing frantic circles looking for her car. You noticed the wild look in her eyes and acted. You approached her and offered to help, and she accepted. My mother has Alzheimer’s, and I would want someone like you, both caring and observant, if she ever needed help.
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