Lay, Lady, Lay

Although firmly back in the dude camp now, Sincero says her sexual experiences with women have made her a better person. "Sleeping with women was like taking a superhero pill," she writes. "It inspired interesting discussions with friends, family and a slew of strangers. It opened me up to the incredibly diverse world of sexuality that I'd only dipped my toe into before and which I'm now fascinated by." She's convinced men and women should open their minds—and their pants—to new sexual adventures.

"I feel like I'm in more control of my sexuality," one woman dabbler says in Sincero's book. "I feel empowered by this. Like I have some secret knowledge. . . . It's hard to explain, but I think it's made me more confident in my sexual encounters with men. [I'm] better able to ask for and get what I want."

"I think everybody just needs to not be so ashamed and freaked out [about sex]," Sincero says—and especially about the notion of girl-on-girl action. "I think everybody just needs to calm the fuck down.''

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